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Know your own answer
Working out what you want before you ask anyone else.
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Say What You Want
Expectations, out loud, without the awkwardness.
Most dating mix-ups aren't anyone being a villain. Two people just quietly wanted different things and neither said so. This manual is about saying where you're at, asking where they're at, and dealing honestly with the answer, whatever "relationship" means to the two of you.
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Who it's for
- You tend to go along with things and hope it works out.
- You're seeing someone and not sure what it is.
- You want something casual, or something serious, and don't know how to say it without it sounding like a speech.
What's inside
02
Saying it plainly
Putting your position into one or two honest sentences.
03
Asking, then listening
Asking where they are and actually hearing it.
04
The "what is this?" chat
When to have it, how to open it, and how to leave room for any answer.
05
When it doesn't match
Different wants, handled kindly, including walking away well.
06
Keeping it current
Checking in as things change, without making every evening a meeting.
What you'll be able to do
- Say what you're looking for in a sentence or two.
- Ask what they want without making it an interview.
- Hear an answer you didn't want without sulking or selling.
- Keep things clear as they change.
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What this isn't
- Not a script for getting the answer you want.
- Not explicit.
- Not therapy or couples counselling.
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FAQ
No. It works just as well for something casual. Clear is the point, not committed.
It gives example lines to adapt. Your own words always beat borrowed ones.
There's a whole chapter on that. It's chapter 05.
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